Here are over 200 sexy text messages and conversation starters for you to use. They range from sweet to saucy. You can use them exactly as they appear here or you can change them up to suit your style or particular mood.
Some of these work great as quick little messages to break up the monotony of a normal day. Others are openings to longer conversations.
So I’ve broken them into two sections. However, a quickie can lead to a longer conversation, and sometimes a conversation starts and gets interrupted.
It’s fun to use texting to build the desire factor. Start out slowly and get hotter and hotter. But it’s perfectly acceptable to fire off a text that is dirty right from the start.
As I say throughout the program, there is no wrong way to do this!
Quickies and Happy Endings
Quickies work well as stand-alone messages. They also can be used as happy endings to longer sexting conversations. Feel free to mix it up!
Mmmm…
- I want you here right now!
- I am so ready for you
- your body is delicious
- dirty thoughts running through my mind 😉
- you feel amazing, you know that?
I can’t wait to…
- feel you deep inside me
- have you
- fuck you
- have your cock in my mouth
- feel your tongue against my clit
- All I can think about…
- is how good you fuck me
- is how bad I want your cock right now
- is the way you make me lose control
- are the noises you make when you cum
- is how I want to be sweaty and naked with you
Know what?
- I want to be so dirty for you
- I want to feel you so bad right now
- I am your naughty little sex slave 😉
- I miss your cock
- you leave me in a state of pure bliss
- I want you to leave work early and come fuck me.
- you can have me anyway you want 😉
- I am dripping wet, ready for you
You have me so…
- turned on just thinking about you
- horny. Damn babe.
- wet right now thinking about last night
- distracted, thinking naughty thoughts
- crazy in lust. What are you doing to me? 🙂
I can’t stop thinking about…
- how good you feel
- how amazing it feels being in your arms
- how you take control and make me yours
- the way you make me cum so good
- how fucking bad I want you
- your cute ass 😉
I miss your…
- lips and the passionate way you kiss me
- cock right now. Come over here please!
- sexy bedroom eyes. I melt when you look at me that way!
- touch. I want you so bad right now!
- body and the way your skin feels against mine
You looked so…
- sexy in bed this morning
- powerful last night when you pulled me into bed
- hot when you got out of the shower. I wanted you so bad!
- delicious in your suit/jeans/shirt/boxers. I wanted to tear it/them right off 😉
- horny when I got out of the shower. You wanted me, I know it 😉
Damn…
- you are so fucking sexy
- I love how you fuck me
- I can’t get enough of you
- I can’t stop thinking of you and your amazing cock
- you leave me so satisfied
- I am a lucky woman 😉
Psst…
- I am thinking about your penis right now 😉
- you make me so happy and satisfied
- I want you right this second
- imagine my mouth on you right now. Hard yet?
- I have the most naughty things on my mind
You are so…
- incredible. You leave me breathless.
- talented. My body quivers just imagining your touch.
- sexy. You turn me on like no other man.
- delicious. I need to taste you so bad.
- generous. I love how you make sure I cum every time.
- amazing. You know exactly how to make me hot for you.
- naughty. You make me want to do dirty things to you!
Want to know something?
- you know exactly how to make my body sing
- you have me so completely turned on
- I am so hot for you
- you make me think about sex all the damn time
- you are one sexy piece of man meat 😉
- I love how much pleasure you give me
I get so turned on thinking about…
- your broad, strong shoulders
- the little trail of hair on your tummy that leads to your penis
- the way you look naked and panting with desire
- how good you fuck me
- the passionate way you make love to me
- your rock hard erection
- the way it feels when you first enter me
- how amazing your cock feels
- the way you lick my pussy and make me cum
I really love your…
- smile and the devilish look you get in your eyes when you want me
- tongue and the magic it creates
- thick cock and how you fill me up
- stamina, you wear me out in the most delicious way
- sexy imagination and how you surprise me
I love the way you…
- make love to me, I feel so beautiful and desirable
- fuck me like I’m your dirty little slut
- make me so damn horny all the time
- look right after you climax, like all your stress has evaporated
- go down on me and make me cum so hard
- tease my body until I can hardly stand it
- make me feel so sexy
I am craving…
- your touch
- your body
- your cock
- your lips and tongue exploring my body
- the way you go down on me
- being skin to skin with you
- the amazing orgasms you give me
- you between my legs 😉
Guess what I’m thinking?
- what a sexy man I have
- I can’t wait to have you give it all to me
- dirty, naughty, sexual things about you
- about the other night and how wonderful you felt
- how amazing your cock is 😉
- all of the ways I could make you cum
- all of the places on my body I want your mouth
- all of the places on your body I want to kiss and nibble
Sexting Conversations
While quickies can lead to lengthier conversations, the following texts are set up to get a response and create a dialogue, even if the dialogue involves you doing most of the dirty talking.
These work best when you know you have his attention and he can reply back. If you send one and he doesn’t reply immediately, you can leave it as a standalone thought or add a ending like “I can’t wait” or “See you tonight.”
The sensual journey
The word “imagine” is powerful. You are commanding his senses and taking him on a secret journey with these texts. First, I am going to give you a bunch of phrases, then I will show you how to put it together. Read through them and know they are just in a general order right now 🙂
Pretend for a moment…
- we are alone in bed…
- it’s Saturday night…
- we are on a romantic vacation…
- you are here with me now…
Imagine…
- my fingers massaging your shoulders/neck/back/scalp
- my lips kissing your chest
- my breasts and how they react to your expert touch
- my hands traveling over your skin
- my hands are gliding over your soft skin
- I pull you toward me, I want you on top of me
- I slide my hands across your stomach
- I take your hard cock in my hands
- I move my face between your legs
- you move your hands across my tummy and then between my legs
- you create a trail of kisses from my breasts to the top of my inner thighs
- I take you in my mouth, stroking you with my tongue
- my body arching in pleasure as you make me climax
The words you want to pepper in these texts include
- Hug
- Embrace
- Slide
- Glide
- Caress
- Massage
- Touch
- Wrap
- Envelop
- Between
- Brush
- Graze
- Tease
- Stroke
- Rub
- Scratch
- Fondle
- Cuddle
- Feel
- Pet
- Grope
- Grab
- Taste
- Blow
- Lick
- Kiss
- Nibble
- Bite
- Grind
- Push
- Pull
- Squeeze
- Anticipate
- Tickle
- Shiver
- Spark
- Crave
- Desire
- Heat
- Hot
- Sweaty
- Glisten
- Fire
- Sizzle
- Savor
- Explode
- Climax
- Satisfy
- Bliss
Here is an example of how to put this all together…
You: Hey honey, let’s pretend for a moment…
Him: Hi! pretend?
You: Yes, pretend that we are alone together on an overnight escape…
Him: Mmm that sounds nice
You: We arrive in our room and I gently pull you to me, unbuttoning your shirt. You wrap your arms around me and we pull close for a kiss…
You: I know how stressed you’ve been at work. I tell you to lay on the bed and I grab some massage oil from my bag. I work my fingers over your tense muscles lulling you into a state of relaxation…
Him: Oh wow, I would love that
You: I glide my hands over your skin as you roll to your back. I straddle you and begin to slowly grind against you. You feel how turned on I am and match my rhythm…
Him: Mmmm
You: I am aching to feel you. Reading my mind you slide your erection inside me. We move together, faster and faster, our bodies on fire with passion…
You: I want to savor this moment, the look on your face as you climax. You are so amazing 🙂
As you can see from the example, you can do a sensual journey without using explicit language if that feels more comfortable to you.
20 Sextions
Different than the traditional game of 20 Questions, where he needs to guess what you are thinking (although that is another fun texting game to play), here you are just going to ask him a series of yes/no questions.
Do you like it when…
- I lose control and scream your name?
- I swallow?
- I cum for you?
- I tell you how horny you make me?
- I beg for you to fuck me?
- you know I’m here, crazy with desire for you?
- I fulfill your fantasies?
- I ask you how I can please you?
- I make you beg for me?
Are you ready…
- to see my wild side?
- to fuck me long and hard?
- to stay up late and go several rounds?
- to have your every wish be my command?
- to have me tire you out and leave you happily spent?
- to watch me suck your dick until you cum?
Just how bad…
- do you want me to be for you?
- do you think I want you right now?
- do you want me right now?
- do you want to see me naked?
- do you want me to suck your cock?
Tell me…
- just how dirty you want me to be for you
- how bad you want to fuck me
- how much are you missing my body
- are you as horny as I am?
- exactly what you want me to do to you
- exactly how you are going to please me
- what fantasy you want me to fulfill
- are you hard thinking of me wanting you so bad?
Sexy Memories
These texts I can’t write for you 🙂 Grab your journal and look through your memories that you wrote down. You are going to use the power of memory to take his mind right back to a sexy moment from your past.
Remember…
- your first kiss
- the first time you made love
- a time you were really turned on by him
- a funny time you had sex
- a particularly passionate time
- a particularly romantic time
- an adventurous sexcapade
- the most mind-blowing orgasm he gave you
- the most mind-blowing orgasm you gave him
- the most recent time you had sex
- how he made you feel sexy
- sex while on vacation
- sex in unusual places
First This, Then That
The “first this, then that” is a way to quickly get right into the action of a sexy story. Start with the “first this” and leave an ellipsis on the end. Then send the “then that” section.
If we were alone right now…
- first I would ask you to undress me… then we would lay down on our bed
- first I would pull off your shirt… then I would unzip your pants
- first you would kiss me… then I would slowly sink to my knees
- first I would greet you at the door naked… then I would pull you in for a passionate kiss
- first I would lay you naked on the bed… then I would begin to rub and caress your tired muscles
- first you’d come up behind me in the kitchen… then you’d grab my hips and press against me
You keep adding to the story by telling him what you’d do next, “Next I would…” He might jump in and start narrating what he would do, too. Also, you can vary the story, making him the aggressor, “Next you would… Then you would…”
- Next I would run my hands over your body… caressing you, teasing you, enjoying every inch of skin
- Then I would slide my fingers up your inner thigh, pausing for a moment, knowing how badly you want me to slide my hands over your erection…
- Then you would grab my arms and flip me onto my back, pinning me under the weight of your body
- Next you would trail kisses from my shoulders to my breasts, watching my nipples stand at full attention
- Then you would slide your fingers up my inner thighs, feeling my muscles twitch in anticipation
- Next you would move my legs apart and lower your face between them. You know this moment before your tongue meets my skin is the most delicious bit of torture.
- Then you begin to lick, suck, and swirl until my entire body is quivering and quaking. I feel the most incredible spasms of sheer pleasure as I climax against you.
The beauty of these types of texts is that you can control the pace of the action. It’s like a more simple and improvised form of the Erotic Action Movie and quite similar to the Lust Mirror. You can narrate the story to include your favorite bits of foreplay, oral, and intercourse as you want.
Would You Rather
Remember this fun game you used to play as a kid? This time it’s a much steamier version. You can use these questions to not only turn your partner on but also to find out things he may not have shared with you before.
Would you rather…
- have my hair in a ponytail or down and loose?
- look down my shirt or up my skirt?
- have me wear sexy panties or none at all?
- see me in tight jeans or a curve-hugging dress?
- kiss me or nibble my neck?
- pinch my nipples or suck them?
- give me a massage or receive one?
- make love by candlelight or with the lights on?
- have sex in the shower or in the bathtub?
- see me in lingerie or in one of your shirts with nothing underneath?
- have me on top or take me from behind?
- take me by surprise or have me beg for you?
- be tied up or blindfolded?
- have me tied up or blindfolded?
- have me be dirty or virginal?
- ejaculate in my mouth or on my body?
- be my sex slave or have me be yours?
- have slow and romantic sex or hard and fast?
- watch porn with me or have me be your personal phone sex operator?
The sky is the limit, here! Add in anything your naughty mind can think of 😉 You can also add in playful and seemingly random questions in there, too, to mix it up.
Would you rather…
- be tickled for 15 minutes or get the mail wearing a towel?
- have a car but no shoes or shoes but no car?
- see a drive-in movie or outdoor concert?
- go to a football or baseball game?
- enjoy a picnic on the beach or at the park?
- take a trip to Las Vegas or San Diego?
- eat in a 4-star restaurant or order room service (naked)?
- fly first class to a vacation or take a helicopter tour once there?
- plan a surprise or be surprised?
You get the picture. I’ve used Would You Rather as a sneaky way to get info on gift giving and vacation/staycation plans. Once you are in the groove of asking questions, you can throw in all sorts of “would you rathers” without raising suspicions.
Final Notes
Have fun using your smart phones to spice up your love life. All of these examples were created with texting in mind, however, you can use these for phone conversations and face-to-face moments, too.
I hope that your imagination is overflowing with sexy ideas and excitement to try these out!
Remember, you might send a text and not receive a reply right away.
Keep in mind, when you aren’t right there, you don’t know what is happening on his end. So don’t take it personally! There have been several times when my guy had his phone turned off because he was in a meeting, or he left it in the car, or he saw the text and loved what I sent but didn’t have a moment to reply.
If you send a text and don’t get a response, the most important thing is to not freak out. Just give it some time. Casually ask if he received it and let him know that there will be more sexy surprises in store for him. If you suspect that he’s just tongue-tied and isn’t sure how to respond, use the techniques that ask a specific question to start out with, like 20 Sextions or Would You Rather.
