If you want to reach right into the core of any man’s raw primal sex drive, you need to understand just how important his penis is to him.
It may not be the prettiest looking thing but he LOVES it…and you should, too. Nothing will earn his undying devotion to you more than a never-ending well of cock worship.
So let’s learn to love the penis!
Why does he want to show off his penis?
I get this question a lot. And I used to wonder the same thing. Because I love research, I actually discovered there is an evolutionary force that pushes men to show off their units.
Looking toward the animal kingdom, male monkeys and apes will show the female of the species their penis as a way to demonstrate sexual interest.
Not to get into a debate about evolution or creationism, but to me this explains that men are hard-wired to want to put their manhood on display. It’s his way of letting you know “Hey! Look! I’ve got a penis and I want to have sex!”
Which also explains the creepy flasher in the raincoat phenomenon and the proliferation of penis pics floating around the Internet.
And if you’ve done any amount of online dating, you’ve probably met a too-eager dude who texted you a pic of his junk. Maybe you’ve even met many of them.
Yikes!
So while females in the animal kingdom might see the male of the species flash his naked wiener and understand it as an invitation to sex, we human females tend to think “PERVERT!” when some dude we hardly know shows us his wiener.
More on flashers…
This whole “pervert” thing is also a reason there are guys who get their jollies by flashing their junk at unsuspecting women.
We throw around the word “exhibitionist” a lot but this isn’t healthy “exhibitionism”..it is actually a sexual disorder whereby people get aroused by non-consensually exposing their genitals to other people.
Some flashers do it to get aroused as well as shock or upset their audience. Other flashers do it to get aroused and also with the hope the person witnessing their display will become aroused as well.
The goal of the flasher is generally not to commence in sexual activity, the exposing of his genitals is what arouses and satisfies him.
The other reason less perverted reason he wants to show off his peen?
He gets completely turned on by seeing your naked breasts and lady bits. Therefore, in his mind, you are going to get turned on by seeing his penis. That is called projective empathy (i.e. if I like it, I’m predicting that you probably like it too).
So even though he probably doesn’t actually say to himself “Wow, I like see her boobs. I wish she’d send me a pic of her boobs. Hey! I know! I’ll send her a pic of my dick which will make her send me a pic of her boobs!”
That’s what his brain is thinking. Seeing boobs = I get turned on. Therefore, seeing my penis = she gets turned on.
Do you get turned on by seeing it though?
Maybe, maybe not. Personally, I love seeing my boyfriend’s dick (in a pic and in person). I didn’t always feel that way, though. But once I understood how HE feels about it, it changed my mind.
He sees his penis as an extension of his masculinity and self-worth (literally).
He views his penis as his tool to bring you to the heights of ecstasy. Okay, we all know that chances are his tongue is the organ that REALLY gets the job done for you. Hell, it could even be that he did the dishes and put the kids to bed that gets you to the brink of orgasm. However, in his mind, his penis is #1 in the ecstasy category.
As you learned in the previous lesson, most men are literally humming with testosterone 24/7 and beneath their calm demeanor lurks a ravenous sex-beast who wants to seduce and fuck pretty much every woman in sight (even though he doesn’t).
His penis is the body part that shows proof of these manly testosterone-driven desires. Even more than his brain.
Guys love their penis but they also feel completely at the mercy of it at the same time. Which is why he calls his penis his “little brain” or he may say his penis has a mind of its own. In a man’s world, his penis is calling the shots much of the time.
The best comparison to help you understand how his penis represents his manhood is how we women feel about our breasts. We obsess over their size and shape. We try all sorts of bras to enhance how they look. We compare our “girls” to other women’s. And for many of us, we view our boobs as the pinnacle of our femininity. Whereas most guys? Sure they love boobs but they generally don’t nit-pick about them. Because in his mind, “Awesome! I get to see boobs!” is all that matters.
But honestly, the way we think about our boobs is probably only a fraction of the importance a man gives his penis.
Just understand he has looked at his wiener in every possible way. He’s measured it. He’s compared it to other guy’s units. He thinks about his penis ALL THE TIME. Or at least a good amount of time. And he hopes against all hopes that you find his penis amazing.
Let’s hear it from the men
As you know, in creating this program, I interviewed several men I know to get them to spill their secrets. Of course I had to ask them about their penis obsession. Here is what they told me…
“My dick is half of my identity. At least.”
“I look at my two kids and think ‘Wow, my penis is what helped create them!'”
“I love my dick. It gives me so much pleasure and thankfully, has never let me down.”
“Mine has a nickname. It’s like he is a person, really.”
“I’ve never had a nickname for it. That would feel like talking about myself in 3rd person!”
“I still think about John Bobbitt 20+ years later. Man, I can’t imagine what that poor guy has gone through.”
“I’ve never cum without having my penis involved. But making a woman cum is equally as much of a turn-on as having her touch my cock.”
“I don’t spend time looking at it thinking it’s so magnificent. Well, okay, actually I do. It’s funny looking AND magnificent.”
“I’ve been told it’s big. I’m pretty sure that’s true. But even if it isn’t, I do love hearing from my girlfriend how big she thinks it is.”
“The women I’ve slept with who I think the most fondly of are the ones who acted like they were obsessed with my dick. I mean, not in a creepy way. But they did let me know they loved it!”
“I do spend a lot of time thinking about my penis. I also spend a lot of time thinking good thoughts about my wife’s vagina. And I wonder if she spends as much time thinking about this stuff as I do haha”
“I know it’s probably average in size. But it’s thick. I do think it’s thicker than most. I take pride in that.”
I also had to ask them if there was anything they wished more women knew about the penis…
“I wish more women were confident about touching it. Experiment. I will tell you what I like but I love it when a woman explores on her own.”
“The tip is EXTREMELY sensitive. Like uber sensitive. If you want me to last longer, spend more time and attention on the base and shaft.”
“I wish women would just ask me what I want. Why are so many of you afraid to talk about dicks?”
“There is a reason we talk about deep-throating. It feel absolutely amazing. I wish my wife would practice and get rid of her gag reflex.”
“Handle with care! Think about it. Do you like a guy to be rough with your clit right off the bat?”
“Not every penis is the same. Some guys actually prefer blow jobs. Some want a good old fashioned handy j, too. And don’t forget to pay attention to the balls. Me? I like it all!”
“Remember lube or saliva. The wetter the better. Dry can hurt.”
“If you just want it to be over with, focus all your attention on the tip. But if you want to really tease me and please me and get a LOT more from me, focus on the center of the shaft to the base.”
“I wish more women knew just how hot it is when she takes control and is confident in pleasuring me. I don’t always want to have to ask for head, either.”
Love his dick to get his devotion
The bottom line: The more affection, attention, and love you shower on his cock, the more he feels like a man. A big, strong, sexy, virile MAN.
And the more he feels like a strong and virile man, the more he will view you as an incredible sex goddess.
By loving his penis almost as much as he does, you drive him absolutely WILD with appreciation for you. Because he’s probably never had a woman love on his penis this way. It’s true! Men yearn to be objectified and they so rarely get to revel in it.
Most women make that “ewwwww!” face when they come face to face with a naked wiener. I bet you might be even making that face right now!
You need to reprogram your brain with regard to his penis. You need to think about his cock. Tell yourself how much you love it. Worship it. You need to have his cucumber on your brain 24/7.
Here is what I want you to do:
1. Say it out loud right now, “I love his beautiful, amazing penis!” Repeat. And repeat it again. The more you say this, the more you believe it.
2. When he’s changing his clothes or fresh out of the shower, STARE at his penis. Lick your lips. Smile. Be obvious about it. Pretend you are the big bad wolf and his dick is your prey. He may feel a little shy at first because it’s not something he’s probably used to. But he will absolutely LOVE it. All the more reason to do this!
3. Tell him you love his dick. A text out of the blue that says “Just thinking of how much I love your dick” will blow his mind. Simple as that.
But get in the habit of telling him things like:
I love your dick.
Your penis is incredible.
I can’t wait to feel your penis inside me.
I want to have your dick in my mouth.
Your penis is beautiful.
Your cock feels so amazing.
I want your hard cock so bad.
You have such a magnificent cock.
Your dick gives me so much pleasure.
I love making you and your cock happy and satisfied.
I can’t stop thinking about your amazing penis.
Seeing your hard dick turns me on.
I love how thick your cock is.
4. Use descriptive phrases about his penis during sex. Use lots of dick talk during sex, it’s “his” moment in the spot light!
I love how your dick fills me up.
Take it slow, you are so big.
Your cock is so big, give it all to me.
I love your hard cock.
You last so long!
Your dick feels so good.
Show me your big hard dick.
Give me your big hard dick.
Fuck me with your amazing cock.
I love how you fuck me with your big hard cock.
It really doesn’t matter what you say exactly, just that you talk about it.
In pretty much every single lesson in this program, I will be showing you ways to talk about his wiener.
Yes, it feels silly. And declaring your devotion to his dick may not even be the truth…yet. But the more you do this, the more you actually believe you love his penis. And the more you believe, the more you show it. And the more you show it, the more he feels desired and powerful.
That is powerful and intoxicating to him. And it will earn you his utter devotion. Why? Because you love his cock like no other woman ever has before.
A special exercise for single women
I don’t recommend starting off a first date conversation by telling a guy how much you plan to love his penis. Well, I mean you can, but I can’t promise it won’t become incredibly awkward! However, what you CAN do that is actually quite powerful is to use mental telepathy.
Mental telepathy is the practice of silently communicating directly with another person’s mind. You might think it sounds like some sort of hokey carnival trick. But I swear to you, it works.
Sending specific subliminal thoughts directly at someone causes a reaction. Very few people are skilled enough to pick up on what you are thinking verbatim. However, they will pick up on the energy on some level.
The next time you are on a date with a guy you are attracted to and would like to get to know better, I want you to think about his penis.
Think loooongggg and harrrrdddd about his junk (pun intended).
In your mind, run through the list of phrases I shared above. Do this while making eye contact with him. And give him a sly, knowing smile for added kick.
You might notice him get a little uncomfortable. He may also ramp up his flirting or start to use grand gestures with his body language (this indicates he’s receptive and trying to impress you).
You can even toy with him a bit, if you are feeling saucy.
Think about his penis intentionally with intensity for a few minutes. Then relax and shift your mental focus elsewhere.
Then several minutes later, repeat it again by mentally focusing on his weiner while thinking thoughts like “I want to worship your cock”.
Have fun with it. But remember to be careful…using this method on a man you have zero attraction toward may result in unwanted suitors!
Eeek! I am shy about saying this stuff
If you feel a little uncomfortable with the dick talk, you aren’t alone. A lot of ladies aren’t crazy about this at first. I understand that the idea of saying some of these phrases might be making you freak out a little. However, I promised I’d tell you what is going to make your guy feel like he’s won the sexual lottery. And cock worship is part of it.
One way you can tailor the language to a more comfortable level is to start out by taking out the word “cock” and “dick” and substitute it for “you” where appropriate.
For example:
You feel so good.
I love how hard I make you.
I love how good you feel.
You get the idea 🙂
PS – In Module Six, I teach you how to give him a blow-job that will totally make his eyes roll into the back of his head with pleasure!
